DAS BUT. Read what u wrote. What did Antonia teach u
She instructed me that I could double my legs over my head when masturbating to heighten the sense of pleasure I get in my genitals. But I got some in my mouth and it was gross. I was touched as a child and this triggered horrible flash backs from when I would spend summers at my granfathers house.
I frequently take medication for depression and have not figured out why it is I am so depressed. After doing antonias exercises, it brought so many things to light. In a way, I wish I would have never done them, I was much better off with the repressed memories
this is very weird.
DAS!! Yes, I remember having responded to an inquiry, but I did not tell you this.
Antonia. I found out my wife climaxes when she is on top of me, but does not when I am on top of her. Can you explain it.
When the woman is on top (the superior position), there is an increased incidence of clitoral penis friction. That is the likelihood of friction between the clitoris and the invading penis is higher than in the missionary position. This alone increases the chances of an orgasm. In addition, when the woman is on top she can freely touch herself, pressing her clitoris against the penis’ in and out movements. Also, many women find it “mentally” satisfying to be on top. Normally women who like to be on top are more aggressive.
antonia- das but here. remember when you taught me how to pleasure myself? Well, I tried it, and this stuff came out of my genitals that really made me hurt. It was very mucous like. I tasted it and it made me vomit a little bit. What is this? It reminds me of what my grand pa used to feed me. One time he watched me eat it with a spoon off of the plate. I will never forget that. he hurt me after wards
I discovered my son having sex with my neighbour. He is 17 and she's 38. I was shocked. I can understand a boy wanting to sleep with a grownup woman, but in spite of all what I read, I cannot understand how a mature woman of 38 would want to sleep with a youngster. Should I intervene?
Intervene? Let's focus on what is good for your son. You cannot predetermine what is good for him until you sit down and discuss the issue with him. Was it a one-time even, few times or has it been regular? Was she his first sexual relationship? Does he have a girlfriend? If he does not, does he go out with girls? Is he having sex with other girls? All these issues are important. The main issue is for him not to be dependent on this woman for sex. If he becomes dependent on her for sex (and she’s his only outlet) it will have an effect on his psych and affect his emotional development. Sit down and discuss these with him and if you want to write back to me.
Antonia. Last night we did it one more time in the living room. We went to the movies. I was wearing stockings and garter belt and he got a glimpse of top of my stockings while at the movies. He wanted to fool around while at the movies, but I stopped him. It was too public. In the car he touched me between the legs. It was a fairly long drive and I was close to coming. Once at home, he jumped me. I was so worked up that I came quickly, before he did. He kept on pounding me, telling me 'slut'. I provoked him more (like our normal pillow talk) telling him I am a slut that wants to be fu----. I came another time.
Good. You have succeeded in moving your sex to places other than the bedroom. It seems your husband does not mind to venture in public as he was touching you in the movies. Now it is up to you, to see where you want to be had.
Antonia. Last night we did it one more time in the living room. We went to the movies. I was wearing stockings and garter belt and he got a glimpse of top of my stockings while at the movies. He wanted to fool around while at the movies, but I stopped him. It was too public. In the car he touched me between the legs. It was a fairly long drive and I was close to coming. Once at home, he jumped me. I was so worked up that I came quickly, before he did. He kept on pounding me, telling me 'slut'. I provoked him more (like our normal pillow talk) telling him I am a slut that wants to be fu----. I came another time.
Good. You have succeeded in moving your sex to places other than the bedroom. It seems your husband does not mind to venture in public as he was touching you in the movies. Now it is up to you, to see where you want to be had.
What about that excites you? I can understand a woman wanting to be taken roughly, to be dominated, to be sexually plundered. What I don't get is the "rape" part. Perhaps it's my definition of "rape", which is to be sexually violated against your will. It seems to me that someone with a "rape" fantasy can't be taken against their will.
Does your fantasy include being assaulted by a stranger or by someone you know or at least trust to some extent? Say you post an ad on craigslist saying that you have a rape fantasy. Someone replies and after a few emails you give them directions to your place, they come over and take you. To me that's not really rape because there is consent involved.
When a woman fantasises about rape it is rape without harm. I repeat rape without harm, regardless of who is raping. Some women fantasise about strangers raping them others their partners. Women who fantasise about their partners, are conscious that they won’t hurt them. Yes these women, want aggressive, hectic, urgent and animal sex. They want to be taken suddenly, normally with their clothes on, and in a rough way. With their partners they may pretend that they are being taken against their will, to make the sex rougher. But I repeat it is rape with no harm.
I'm trying to differentiate between a rape fantasy and actually being raped as it is commonly defined; someone attacking you on the street or breaking into your house without invitation.
Can you clarify your fantasy for me? TIA
To be raped by my husband. Yes he takes me against my will, at least initially, then I want him to sexually plough me.
When a woman fantasises about rape it is rape without harm. I repeat rape without harm, regardless of who is raping. Some women fantasise about strangers raping them others their partners. Women who fantasise about their partners, are conscious that they won’t hurt them. Yes these women, want aggressive, hectic, urgent and animal sex. They want to be taken suddenly, normally with their clothes on, and in a rough way. With their partners they may pretend that they are being taken against their will, to make the sex rougher. But I repeat it is rape with no harm.
Male homosexuals (or some bisexuals) do say that men do give better head than women. In as much as bisexual women do say that women can better satisfy another women. There is truth to these statements as a woman exactly knows what she wants and what another women wants and can provide it, and the same applies to a man.
I can accept men fantasising to see their wives getting fucked by other men (or even boys), but I cannot possibly accept that it can really happen. These men must be sick if they want to see their wives actually fucking other males.
I have the same opinion. I cannot imagine my wife fucking another man, even if I fantasize about it.
Most men who fantasise about sharing their wives with other men, would not want to actualise their fantasies.
Hi Antonia. Some more progress. Fast! He was sitting beside me looking (though shyly) at the recent Elle issue. I commented on a scantly dressed woman and how sexy she was. I put my hand on his crotch and he had an erection. While still holding on to the magazine I undid his pants. He did not stop me and then I sucked him! It took a while for him to come, some 15 minutes. My lips swelled! The strange thing is that we do not comment on it later, as if it did not happen.
I have the impression that your husband likes what you are doing and he is passive in sex. So you have to take the initiative. I assume this is the first time you fellate him. He is not used to it and that's why it took a long time for him to come. I believe now you have an easy course to do whatever you want. Next time ride him and start using four-letter words when you are at it.
I have been with many women and none of them would let me fuck them in the ass, for different reasons, such as it hurts, it is barbaric, it is dirty, it is degrading, etc...
I have responded to a similar question before. Yes anal intercourse is dirty, degrading, debasing, etc... But this is exactly what some women want. I come back to the issue of animal sex, as explained in the post above.
It seems you left. You are correct in saying that the pleasure a woman gets from anal intercourse rests mainly in the mind. I read you saying this a few times. This is exactly how I feel. I feel an "animal" as you say. An animal that wants to be "fu----." My question is: Shouldn't all women feel like animals?
For some women consciously and for most women subconsciously we all want animal sex. Those who are conscious about it, are aggressive in bed, wanting rough sex. They tend to enjoy bad language during sex, and in most instances do provoke their partners sexually. For those who are unconscious about it, animal sex only surfaces when they loosen up (have their inhibitions released) by some alcohol for example. Anal intercourse is the epitome of animal sex.