On friday we went dancing with another couple. They are our best friends and we hang out together very frequently. While dancing my husband started groping at my butt and for the first time I let him. I felt his erect penis pushing against my crotch and lower belly. he rubbed against me and I let him. Antonia, I thought of what you told me. My friend who was dancing with her husband gave me a wink. She is the very outgoing person who keeps on telling me to loosen up.
Thanks a lot. I shall do what you tell me, if I can. I shall make it a point to think of you when he touches me so that I remember your advice.
As for my friends, one of them openly provokes her husband. She's very aggressive. The other three are quite flirtitious with their husbands. They are very receptive to public sex. I do not mean making it in public, but kissing, touching, petting, etc...
Antonia. I have 4 good friends, and all of them are open minded. I believe I am the only up-tight one among them. You guided me through a number of issues. Guide me here, or is it too late to change.
Antonia. My best friend makes the same remark about me. She says I am to up-tight when anyone is flirtitious around me. As you do, she tells me I have to loosen up. We have known one another for more than 15 years, and she has been telling me this for a long time. She is a carefree woman, who openly accepts her husbands advances in public. I am the opposite. She tells me I should change.
One of my friends caught her husband having cybersex. He was masturbating to a woman who was masturbating on screen. They were talking dirty. She was telling him how she would like to meet him and his wife, and she can give him his best show ever. My friend listened for a while before she interrupted. He was ashamed of himself when she faced him, and said it was just a game they play together. Surprisingly my friend told him she likes to join him when he cybers with her. So two days later she joined him. She said it was a lot of fun and the idea of her making it with them really appealed to her, but only cybering, not actual.
Hi Antonia. I have not written for a while. My husband is adamant to make sexual overtures in public, many times in the presence of other people. Last week also at the movies, with the speed of lightening he had his hand between my thighs groping at my crotch. I did not have time to press my thighs together to stop him. I pleaded, but he held his hand there moving his fingers over my vagina. He kept at it and I became wet. He whispered in my ear that he wants to "fuck" me. I tried to concentrate watching the movie, but he kept on whispering. He told me he knows that I want it badly otherwise I won't be wearing stockings that make me accessible. Two nights ago, we were at a party, and while dancing he kept on groping my ass, with his fingers touching my anus. My best friend noticed it and commented in a funny way later when we were sitting together. Needless to say, at night, by husband takes me like a bull.
I notice that someone is imitating Antonia's thread. This shows to what extend her thread was successful and also it shows to what extent she angered those feeble minded people.
I have not been to the forum for a few days and can see the continued antagonism that this thread has created.
Is Antonia talking to herself? Lets say I go along with that. Should I care? Well to be honest I had a problem and Antonia suggested a solution and it worked. That's what counts.
Antonia. Yesterday evening my husband did me in the kitchen. I was working there and he just patted and ran his hand on my bum to realize I had garters. He lifted my skirt and saw I was wearing stockings. He immediately came behind me and took me against the kitchen counter. It was quick and hectic and he called me slut as he did me. I did not get an orgasm as it was very fast, nevethreless I am happy that now he is tuned to have sex outside the bed. It is amazing how stockings can affect a man's excitement. Thanks!
We were at the movies and I was wearing a short dress and stay-ups. The darker edge of my stockings were visible to my husband and he pushed his hand between my legs. I tried to block it by pressing my legs together, but he was insisting and he reached my crotch. My hand was on his attempting to stop him from touching me there, but he kept on trying. I asked him to stop it a few times and a lady seated next to me asked me to be silent! My husband asked me to open my legs as he won't have it other way. I let go and he started rubbing me. I was too preoccupied with anxiety to be discovered and did not really get excited. I then wanted to but it was beyond me. I guess I am not the type who can enjoy it openly in public.
Antonia. Last night we did it one more time in the living room. We went to the movies. I was wearing stockings and garter belt and he got a glimpse of top of my stockings while at the movies. He wanted to fool around while at the movies, but I stopped him. It was too public. In the car he touched me between the legs. It was a fairly long drive and I was close to coming. Once at home, he jumped me. I was so worked up that I came quickly, before he did. He kept on pounding me, telling me 'slut'. I provoked him more (like our normal pillow talk) telling him I am a slut that wants to be fu----. I came another time.
Antonia. Last night we fucked in the living room for the first time! We were at a party and taking the hint from you, I pointed out to him a scantly dressed woman who was flirting around. I whispered in his ear that she was a slut and was looking for someone to fuck her. Many men had their eyes on her. In the car on the way home, I told him “I wish I could dress like her, but it was too exposing.” He told me that I wanted to be a slut like her. He pushed his hand between my thighs and was shocked to feel my naked thighs and the end of the stockings. I put my hand on his crotch and he had an erection. He told me that I was really a slut (for wearing the stockings in public) and I told him I was one. Once at home, he did not lose time, he pushed me on the couch, face down, lifted my skirt, pushed aside the crotch of my panties and fucked me there. He kept on calling me slut. When he came, he kept on pushing into me. I kept playing with my C spot and I came shortly after he did. It happened fast and it was wild.
Hi Antonia. Last night I walked out of the bathroom wearing black stockings and black garters, matching panties and a bra with half-cups. These were undergarments of a fantasy I tell him about a slut being raped. I never put a face to the slut. My husband spotted me and his eyes popped open. Bingo. He pushed me against the wall, and without bothering to remove my panties, he fucked me. He asked me if I was the slut in the fantasy and I told him “yes.” The fucking was sort of clumsy as he was not used to take me that way standing glued against the wall. It was difficult for him to maneuver himself into me as he had to kneel down and push upwards into me, but he did it. It was hectic, and my mind was fully geared to it as if he was fucking my mind. He came fast and I sat on the ground masturbating till I came. This is the first time he does me outside the bed. Improvement? Eh?
Yes I mean this type of sex. Once at a party we had to dress up in animal uniform. I dressed up like a bunny, and it had a "provocative" effect on him. He told me I reminded him of a Playboy bunny. So you are right. I shall attempt to provoke him as you said. I'd like to wear stockings and I do not mind at all to be a slut (for him of course).
Hi Antonia. I am not sure if you anwered my question. Remember, I started telling him about the rape fantasy, and he is going along with it. I want him to rape me. What should I do?
We never pillow talked. A while back we had a problem. I suspected he was cheating on me. Our sex life was poor. I met Antonia online (many months ago) and she guided me to pillow talk. This changed our sex life topsy turvy.
