Posted 8/24/2009 11:40 pm
I have consistently cheated on my wife, ever since the sex stopped. Got tired of not feeling wanted, so I found other women that made me feel that way.
I have been guilty of this many years ago with girlfriends but not now. He it gets like that just leave them.
Of course I don't have any children, I think
Posted 2/14/2012 7:02 am
I will never cheat on her. I do believe, however, that the sexlessness may drive me over the brink into suicide. I give this a 60% chance of happening in the next five years.
my father said the same thing to me when my mother forced him into their divorce. and my mother accused him anyway because she was a mentally-ill imbecile. This is despite her being the one going around without her wedding ring on (pre-divorce).
you are telling me a married man can't even get a whore? wtf.
It's not just about the raw sex. There's something highly destructive to the male ego about having a spouse that doesn't want sex with you. I was starting to think I didn't "have it" anymore.
So when I was getting hit on by a co-worker, it was more than just flattering. It was regaining by feelings of self-worth as a sexual man. She wanted my dick because she thought I was hot.
Posted 2/14/2012 7:22 am
I wouldn't have gotten married had I thought it a possibility. Marriage is unnatural, so you should consider it very carefully before making that promise. My husband and I are still hot for each other almost 11 years after we locked eyes on each other. People say we act like newlyweds. Maybe that's an anomaly.
I wouldn't have gotten married had I thought it a possibility. Marriage is unnatural, so you should consider it very carefully before making that promise. My husband and I are still hot for each other almost 11 years after we locked eyes on each other. People say we act like newlyweds. Maybe that's an anomaly.
You are probably both just super needy, clingy and co-dependent.
The real inhibitor to cheating and breaking your marriage up is the thought of having to start your life over again. back to the dating scene, etc.
I'd rather buy a panel van and try my hand at duckmaning before trying the dating circuit again after 10 years of rust.
if your wife is not upholding her end of the marriage contract, then you have no moral obligation to uphold yours.
if she isn't giving you enough sex, you've discussed it, and she isn't sick or something, then she is breaking the agreement.
you have every right in the world to seek that elsewhere.
don't feel guilty about it and if caught put the blame squarely upon her. If she asks if you are cheating say "would you blame me if I did?" and then nothing else.
It's amazing how a wife thinks sex isn't important to a relationship, until you have sex with someone else, then suddenly it's the most important thing in the world.
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You really are immature.
I don't care about your sex on the side - it's your childish attitude about what marriage is and means that is annoying. Marriage is not just sex-on-demand.
Why am I responding. You have probably never been married, and think a 3-month dating relationship is a success.