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If a chick is cool and chill, I don't care what she looks like. Trouble is, I haven't found many.

I think you've hit the nail on the head. Look, we all know the hot chicks have got a big advantage in the dating game, but most of the less hot/average chicks seem to have a chip on their shoulder about the whole issue (rather like beta males). If they just sucked it up and worked on making their personalities pleasant, they might just find a man out there who wants a relationship with them. For some reason, however, they seem to envy the hot chicks who get fucked & chucked by alphas.

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So if the mediocre emulate the prime, then a large demographic of available females are worthless.

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You ever get married? A lot of the women I dated in my 20's are fat and haggard now. Not that I will still have my looks forever. If a chick is cool and chill, I don't care what she looks like. Trouble is, I haven't found many.

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A large portion of the population is worthless, male or female.

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The problem is that it's not necessarily easy to discern which are worthy, particularly by the corrupt class system. There's a destitute garbage picker who started scribbling his mathematical ideas on scraps of waste paper and he eventually sent his scribblings to a top mathematician at Cambridge England. He got recognized as a great creative mathematician. There's swarms of assholes in $800 Hugo Boss shoes and Zegna suits that are spineless stupid herd following drones not even worth a bucket of cold piss. You try and sort them out.

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So if the mediocre emulate the prime, then a large demographic of available females are worthless.

A large portion of the population is worthless, male or female.

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The problem is that it's not necessarily easy to discern which are worthy, particularly by the corrupt class system. There's a destitute garbage picker who started scribbling his mathematical ideas on scraps of waste paper and he eventually sent his scribblings to a top mathematician at Cambridge England. He got recognized as a great creative mathematician. There's swarms of assholes in $800 Hugo Boss shoes and Zegna suits that are spineless stupid herd following drones not even worth a bucket of cold piss. You try and sort them out.

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- "If he is over 40, he has been either married or in a long-term relationship"
(There apparently is a (mis?)conception out there that guys who have passed the 40 mark and have never given either marriage or a live-in arrangement a try are damaged goods)

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- "If he is over 40, he has been either married or in a long-term relationship"
(There apparently is a (mis?)conception out there that guys who have passed the 40 mark and have never given either marriage or a live-in arrangement a try are damaged goods)

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The answer is simple. Either avoid marriage altogether, or do what I did: I married my wife back when I was 38 and she was 24.

Yeah, because the "marry a 24 year old when you're almost 40" approach is a realistic option for the aspie hordes out there.

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You are a better man than I. As I grow older, I see more of the hype society sells us, eg, "did you get any?" or "is she good in bed?".

But if you want to be taken seriously in this society (for instance if you want to climb the corporate ladder), you cannot be a single male; people think that you are weird or that something is wrong with you.

Being single in society is seen as a character defect.

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Also, the SNR ratio (single to not) in college is extremely high, where as afterwards it drops exponentially, especially if you seek quality signal.

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Absolutely EVERYONE I knew who married their college gf is now divorced from them.

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The answer is simple. Either avoid marriage altogether, or do what I did: I married my wife back when I was 38 and she was 24. Sure, perhaps at the time it was seen as a bit 'extreme'