What is is with this trend of people between age 18-40 where the man is an unemployed bum living off the girlfriend?
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Posted 2/5/2012 4:26 am
Seriously, if I was an average young man starting out today, I'd probably kill myself. There is nothing to look forward to but endless debt, you know beyond doubt by now your living standard will never be close to that of your parents. All the women are corrupted sluts and the possibility of starting a family seems like a distant dream. I would either kill myself or take up arms in revolt.
It sucks for everyone. Deep down, on that instinctive, ingrown level that feminism hysterically denies the very existence of, women are unable to respect men who can't provide. Meanwhile of course it is horrible on the men but they are confused too, because they've received the same cultural marxist education and media indoctrination, and it never even occurs to them that this will impact their relationships and sense of self. They can soothe their confusion by retreating into videogame dreamworlds of hypermasculine achievement.
What is is with this trend of people between age 18-40 where the man is an unemployed bum living off the girlfriend? How can you even get hard if you are living in such a humiliating way that wrecks your self esteem?
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Posted 2/5/2012 6:23 am
My ex was never happier than after the Asian Economic Crisis when I was broke.
We lived in a house provided by her family and drove a car provided by her family and she bought groceries with money from her family.
She was so happy because all I did was stay at home playing Playstation games while she cooked food for me. I had no money to go out so no other woman could steal me away.
If it was up to her, this would have gone on forever, but I had to get back to work and become the breadwinner again for my own mental health.
No way could I live off a woman long term. Don't know how other men do it
Posted 2/5/2012 6:38 am
I wonder if this reflects a long term evolutionary trend. The thing is, women really do not need men as providers, so it might be adaptive for them to get knocked up by the most sexually attratice man (or men) they can find and just raise the child on their own, rather than settle for a beta provider. This sort of mating strategy has been powerfully selected against in most human populations in the past but now the rules have changed.
My ex was never happier than after the Asian Economic Crisis when I was broke.
We lived in a house provided by her family and drove a car provided by her family and she bought groceries with money from her family.
She was so happy because all I did was stay at home playing Playstation games while she cooked food for me. I had no money to go out so no other woman could steal me away.
If it was up to her, this would have gone on forever, but I had to get back to work and become the breadwinner again for my own mental health.
No way could I live off a woman long term. Don't know how other men do it
I know relatively successful women that have men they are trying to "fix" doing this sort of thing and paying for their expenses and basics like food, clothes, etc...
And yet they garner more respect from these women then you'll ever get from them.
My ex was never happier than after the Asian Economic Crisis when I was broke.
We lived in a house provided by her family and drove a car provided by her family and she bought groceries with money from her family.
She was so happy because all I did was stay at home playing Playstation games while she cooked food for me. I had no money to go out so no other woman could steal me away.
If it was up to her, this would have gone on forever, but I had to get back to work and become the breadwinner again for my own mental health.
No way could I live off a woman long term. Don't know how other men do it
Some women are exceedingly generous
She'd grown up in a wealthy family and so had no concept of the meaning of money, so it wasn't generosity. Her whole life she just assumed money appeared when she wanted something.
From her point of view all that changed was that I stopped going out, so other women couldn't see me, therefore they couldn't steal me away, as according to her sincere belief I was the most handsome man in the world and just a glance at me was enough to make every woman instantly try to have sex with me.
As you can tell, her grasp of reality was tenuous.
The women do clerical work or admin.....no one is cracking $60K a year for sure.
BUT....I know this one guy who is now 62 years old and was an engineer. His wife is a doctor and on the board of directors of a major medical school. He got fired on purpose when he was in his late 40s and has been a gigolo ever since. When people ask him what he does his answer since the 90s was "I do freelance designs for clients".
BULLSHIT....he just watches TV, buys antiques, plays with his cars, etc.....and has been for about 20 years.
His wife makes over $350K easy.
But the family is fucked up. The daughter moved over 300 miles away right after high school and became an alcoholic plus is rumored to have fucked several men to amuse herself. The son went to college for some worthless degree and was still living at home well into his late 20s. They hooked him up with a woman doctor who he eventually married and now lives off of. Like father like son I guess.