Posted 8/11/2009 6:16 am
April, the orgasm is controlled by the mind. So when I am mentally highly charged sexually, I achieve my orgasms easily. When I am not too excited, I do not orgasm, as it takes me (and women in general) a relatively long time to do so, while men orgasm quickly.
Posted 8/11/2009 6:23 am
April. I shall respond to any question who have, and be frank in my responses. In your case, I am trying to take you step by step to achieve orgasm. this entails, knowing your body, then touching it and exploring it, then the orgasm. Just bear with me.
Posted 8/11/2009 6:25 am
My hubby and I agreed to have two young men join us in the bedroom. It took some planning to do and some time to execute. When it happened, the two guys took me, while my husband sat down watching and masturbating. Is this normal?
Posted 8/11/2009 6:27 am : Edited 8/11/2009 6:28 am
Cynthia. You were really stingy in details. How old are you? How old were the guys? What happened after he masturbated? Did he take you later? How did he take you? With lust, etc…..
Posted 8/11/2009 6:30 am : Edited 8/11/2009 6:30 am
We are both 40. The guys are about 25 or 26. We picked up at a bar close to a university. We wanted younger men. After the guys left, my husband took me with lust. I liked it very much. But why masturbate?
Posted 8/11/2009 6:31 am
Well, it is obvious that he enjoys seeing you with other men. So he masturbated, and later he took you with lust. This is the outcome of the whole event. A normal pattern. But how was your sex, did you get an orgasm, etc...
Posted 8/11/2009 6:33 am
Yes I got an orgasm. I do not normally get one when we have sex. This time it was different as I was still excited from the sex that I had with the two guys, and my husband took his time having sex with me.
Posted 8/11/2009 6:35 am
Cynthia. It is obvious that he managed to last longer with you because he had masturbated sometimes earlier. If he had not masturbated, he would have orgasmed with you quickly and he would not have afforded you the time to get an orgasm. So his masturbation improved his performance with you.
Posted 8/11/2009 6:37 am : Edited 8/11/2009 7:33 am
Thanks for the explanation. One more question. My hubby wanted me to do the guys without protection, without condoms. He did not explain why. He just said it is more natural sex.
Posted 8/11/2009 6:39 am
The only explanation I can see is that he wanted to see semen flowing out of your vagina. This is a common fantasy. Also he may wanted to do you with a semen-filled vagina. "To fu.. into someone eles semen," sorry for the words.
Posted 8/11/2009 7:51 am
I am 21, quite liberal, and have had numerous very casual sex (no relationship). I find it easier to suck a guy or to have sex with him than to french kiss him. Why?
And I thought I was wierd. I currently swing with my girlfriend, and my greatest excitement occurs when the guy she is with spends in her, and I see the semen flowing out of her vagina, smudging her thighs. And even greater excitement when I plunge into a vagina full of semen. Thanks a lot for your explanation. I am not alone.
Posted 8/11/2009 9:34 am
I was watching a movie, and there was a rather lengthy rape scene showing 3 school boys forcing themselves on an ex teacher. I got excited and wet. Is this normal for a woman, after all it was a rape scene?
Posted 8/11/2009 9:41 am
I am sorry Antonia I missed you. Just to say it briefly, last Sunday, I needed a manicure and a pedicure and my beauty salone was closed. So I asked my neighbour to do it knowing that she is a pro in this, offering her help many times in the past. For close to an hour she worked on me. I got sexually excited! I think she sensed it too. I have been having manicures and pedicures for ages and this has never happened to me (to get excited). I want to talk about this issue.
