Posted 10/28/2009 3:44 pm
Antonia. My best friend makes the same remark about me. She says I am to up-tight when anyone is flirtitious around me. As you do, she tells me I have to loosen up. We have known one another for more than 15 years, and she has been telling me this for a long time. She is a carefree woman, who openly accepts her husbands advances in public. I am the opposite. She tells me I should change.
Antonia. I have 4 good friends, and all of them are open minded. I believe I am the only up-tight one among them. You guided me through a number of issues. Guide me here, or is it too late to change.
Something tells me that you want to loosen up, Sandy baby. Apologies to John Riggens. Why don't you? Be as sexy and flirty as your friend is. Flirt back with the men who are flirtatious with you. You may have some fun.
I think you are doing fine. If I backtrack to the first time we met, some 9 months ago, your progressed very well in sexually provoking your husband in the bedroom, to provoking outside the bedroom at home, and now in public. I have to remind you that you are provoking his sexual senses in public, and he is responding. That’s what you wanted. Sure you are uptight about it as you are not used to being touched in public. That’s fine. You will gradually open up as he resumes his onslaught on you. And being surrounded by friends who are open about this makes it easier, or puts the pressure on you to move gradually towards their behavioural norms.
With your current mental attitude, the first thing you do when your husband pushes his hand between your thighs (in public) is for you to press your thighs together to block his entry. This is an immediate subconscious behaviour. What I ask from you now, is that, after you press your thighs together, you should “consciously” part them and give him a free hand to touch you between the legs. So you have to do it consciously, and I know you can. So next time you are with him, and your auto-immune reaction occurs (to close your thighs together) let your overt mental reaction lead to the parting of your legs.
From what you tell me about your four friends, I am sure at least one of them, provokes her husband in parting her legs, or with other body language to encourage him to flirt with her in public.
Take myself for instance. My husband is reserved. But I provoke him in public but especially when we are in the car. If he does not initiate touching me, I initiate it myself. I touch him. By the time we reach home, he is so worked out that he cannot wait to reach to the bedroom to have sex.
I fucked my wife! Actually I kind of raped her and we both loved it! She went to into our bedroom at about 11:30, still not talking to me. About 10 minutes later I wanted to sneak in, and I put my ear against the door to see if she is asleep or listening to some music as she often does before going to bed. I heard she was sighing. I sneaked in, and she was masturbating. Without her noticing me coming in I slipped into the bed. She noticed me and complained. I came on top of her and started rubbing against her body. She kept on complaining. I told her “you want to fuck, I know.” While she was complaining, offering little physical resistance, I took hold of my prick and pushed into her wet pussy. She was really went and it squelched as I fucked her. Yet she complained. I took hold of her ass and pulled her upwards as I pushed harder into her. She started groaning. I came in her and continued fucking her. I kept on telling her “you want to fuck.” I kept on rubbing myself against her open vagina till she came.
Posted 10/29/2009 8:55 am
Last night the pub was fairly packed, and Brenda took a stool at the bar. As usual, I took a stool at the other end, but making sure I can see her legs clearly! The guy she had first met joined her. From far I could see them talking with much animation. I was wondering what the two may have in common. The boy did not wait a lot for him to start feeling my wife. His hand was first on her thigh, then it started to disappear underneath her skirt, but not without exposing a lot of skin. Obviously she did not attempt to stop him and on the contrary I saw her adjusting her position inclining towards him to let his hand go further in. I could see her face in full, and I could see she was excited, but not too obvious for anyone who was not aware what was going on. The guy had perseverance! His hand must have remained there for about half an hour, then they were guided by a waitress to have a table. I was disappointed as at the table his hand could not really reach her from within.
An hour later, after having something to eat we were both outside. While at the bar, he had reached her crotch and he rubbed her vagina. She got very excited. He told her to come with him to his room, and she promised that she would do this next week. He told her he is always erect when he is with her, and she touched him. (I did not see her touch him as he sat sideways towards her ). She told me he seemed big and she looks forward for him to fuck her. She asked about his friend, and he had a late seminar. She asked him many personal questions. He has a girlfriend who studies at Edinburgh. His roommate has a girlfriend who studies at Manchester. He told her that they can have a lot of fund the three of them together and she agreed. She told him she had never been with two guys at the same time. She told him that her husband (me!) won’t mind her fooling around.
When we reached home, I fucked my wife in the living room with her telling me how he was feeling her vagina and how she longs for his penis.
Posted 10/29/2009 9:12 am
Yes she likes them young. We think it is has much fewer problems than being with a grown up. You do not have to worry about being emotional. Also the younger have more stamina.
Thanks a lot. I shall do what you tell me, if I can. I shall make it a point to think of you when he touches me so that I remember your advice.
As for my friends, one of them openly provokes her husband. She's very aggressive. The other three are quite flirtitious with their husbands. They are very receptive to public sex. I do not mean making it in public, but kissing, touching, petting, etc...
Posted 10/30/2009 5:46 am
It is close to 12 here. The weather is heavy, damp. I fucked my wife again tonight, but she still does not talk to me! I talked to her all the time while I fucked her, but she won't talk. I told her she can have a lesbian affair with her friend, and how this excited me. We both had our orgasms and this shows she enjoyed the fucking.
